Dear Matchmaker: Why Do I Attract the Wrong People?


The answer to this question isn’t always straightforward. It could be due to a multitude of factors, such as unresolved childhood issues, negative self-image, or unmet needs. It could also be due to being too desperate, seeking validation from others, or having unrealistic expectations.

It’s important to step back and reflect on why you might be attracting the wrong people. Are there any patterns in your behavior or choices that could be leading you to this outcome? Are you engaging in self-destructive behaviors or relationships that don’t align with your values?

Once you identify the root cause of this issue, you can begin to make changes that will help you attract healthier, more compatible relationships.

Have you given up on dating because you keep attracting the same person? Do you feel like, “what’s the point? since you can’t break the never-ending cycle?

In this week’s episode, I discuss why you may be attracting the wrong person and what you can do to break the cycle. It isn’t what you think.

Join me as we discuss red flags, listening t your gut, being vulnerable & how self-sabotage can keep you in a cycle of dating the same type of person again and again.

You can watch this episode on YouTube here.

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